Deserving Success
12/04/2008
Deserving Success
It’s been a while since I last updated. This morning I read a report on building relationships through email and it triggered a situation I had during one of my recent workshops. One participant had stated she had been told all but the last couple of years of her life that she didn’t deserve anything good to happen for her. When, I introduced EFT and the tapping points I used her statement and set it up to reflect what she had stated.
SET UP: Even though, I don’t deserve any success. I forgive myself. I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
We stated that three times on the karate chop point. Then I carried it through to the next nine points and repeated it.
Head – I don’t deserve any success.
EB – I’m not good enough to have success.
OE – They tell me I don’t deserve anything good.
UE – I don’t deserve any success.
N – Yes, I do!
C – No, I don’t
CB – I don’t deserve any success.
UA – I don’t deserve success.
At this point, the she said to me, “I don’t feel comfortable saying I don’t deserve success, because I know that is a falsehood. Can we use another word?” Again, I asked her what word she would like to use and she couldn’t think of anything. She then replied. “I’m uneasy using the word deserve because that part of my life is behind me. I don’t have a problem with it anymore.” I looked at her, smiled, and asked, “Are you sure?” She laughed and said, “You may right. If I can’t say it, then I probably have a problem with it.”
The point is just because we consciously have put something behind us, doesn’t mean the subconscious has put it behind us. The old programming continues to lurk within our subconscious until it turns to dust and blows away.
As long as the old programming remains it will produce blocks, whether we want to admit the blocks are there or not. It’s always better to focus on the clean up even if you consciously believe there isn’t a problem, than to let it possibly remain clouding your success in ways you don’t visibly see it. If you really don’t need the clearing for the particular problem you are focused on, you may need it for a situation you are not focused on. The process can help clear areas you are not intended on clearing.
Tomorrow I’ll relate a story to the woman who refused to participate.
To Your Continued Success,
Cindy
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