Revelations galore were presented this past week, either through consulting sessions or blogs that are on my to-read list. This week Ian David Chapman wrote in his blog a very adept analogy of how you become trapped in the rut of spinning your wheels, while you think you are moving forward in small steps.

Clients often hear me state, “Accept no guilt, no shame, no blame.” All three emotions are a waste of energy and not congruent with achieving your goals. They stymie the body’s electrical circuits.

Instead of my duplicating what Ian David Chapman wrote, click on over and check out his blog.

To Your Continued Success,

Cindy

When in military boot camp, we were told all types of stories to encourage us. One story I remember is the one about a golf enthusiast who was also a Vietnam prisoner of war veteran. He sat in a box unable to see his buddies, who were in adjoining boxes or in near by cages. Daily he envisioned playing golf. After he returned home he pursued his dream of playing golf with his dad. First time on the golf course since he went to war, his game was amazing. It was his best score ever.

How could this be? He visualized daily how he would make the back swing, what club he would use, and how it felt. The first time on the course after all the visualization he did as good as or better than he visualized. He had convinced his subconscious that his game was good. When he played and his subconscious believed his game was great, he played a great game.

You can achieve your dreams the same way. Previously, I’ve talked about turning your neural pathways into super highways. This is done by learning and practicing new things. Each time you visualize you create stronger connects that will allow you to learn how to create what you visualize.

Your subconscious or unconscious mind doesn’t differentiate from the real physical events and those you create using your mind. Chose to create a new mindset and attain your dreams.

EFT can help by removing the emotions that hinder your sense of deserving and ability to allow yourself to accomplish your goals with little effort. Tapping your meridians while you visualize is another good way to assist in removing static energy that clogs your ability to achieve powerhouse.

I’ve found that writing in a journal daily; listing my short term goals is a good beginning. I would write the same goals each morning for a continuous fifteen minutes. Reconfirming, in my awareness, that what I desired - I would continue to work toward these goals daily. With each smaller goal, I would become closer to the over all dream that I had envisioned.

The more your subconscious is aware that you are going to change and that it will be safe. The easier it will be to shift the frequency to become what you desire around you. Actually, the subconscious needs to see it repeatedly before it will accept the frequency change as a truth.

As a writer, your chosen profession is a hard path to tread. You receive criticism from your writing partner, your critique partner or critique group, rejection from publishing houses, small and large alike. Along with receiving one rejection, you probably received more if you are actively writing and submitting your articles, stories, and novels. It’s very easy for the subconscious to turn that around on you making you believe you are not a good writer, you aren’t worthy of publication or no body likes you.

How did you go from writing to no body likes you? That is an extreme case and it can happen. You’re subconscious interpreted the despair you developed when you received the third rejection form letter in one week to mean that you felt no one like you instead of no one liked your work. This is a corner stone for writers block to take hold. Is it valid? Consciously, no it wouldn’t be. Nonetheless, to the subconscious whose desire is to protect you from hurt, it is something you need protected from.

My experience with this sneaking up on me happened when I had been writing for a year. First off, my family and friends loved my stuff. That gave me the confidence I needed to move forward. I joined a critique group. My heart sank. The only good thing said, “I’m sure there is a story in there some where.” Other members told me to keep trying and to learn grammar, especially my tenses. I spoke daily, people understood me. I wrote like I spoke and that was the disaster. I stayed with this group for several months. Continuously, I was told the same thing repeatedly. I’d been studying Strunk and White, carried that little book around with me for fun reading. Boring, yet I acquired better grammar skills. I had become determined. One week my turn arrived to submit another chapter. I received my critique sheets from everyone, when I noticed two members had exampled the work to the exact way I had presented it in the prior session. It was time to move on to another group.

This time I partnered with only one person. We were both beginning our careers in novel writing. We developed the habit of writing a few pages every day and critiquing it for the other. Our stories were forming and our confidence levels began to rise again. Beliefs in ourselves allow us the courage to invite a couple more to join us. We were shattered again and later suspicion set in once again.

I’d been doing my EFT exercises and decided to take my first chapter and turn it into a short story. I submitted it to the group and it was dashed down. Not changing anything I submitted the short story to a couple of magazines. Two sent me contracts for it immediately; the other three said it was well written but not what they were looking for.

During this time my subconscious played the hero and tried to protect me or what I like to call sabotage me. The voices in my head would tell me different things: you’re silly you can’t write; you have nothing to say that anyone wants to hear; other people are smarter than you, you should give up. That is when I developed the habit of doing EFT regularly, to help build my neurons into super highways.

Building a new habit takes twenty one days. The subconscious needs to be continually programmed to accept the new frequency of that habit. If your passion is writing, you should build the neutrons for excelling at the level of writing you desire to be.

Let’s begin with a round of EFT directed toward you accepting that you deserve. Go to: www.ustreamtv.com/manifestinggoals to tap and follow along with me.

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I’ve hired a virtual assistant to lend a hand with developing Manifesting Goals into what I ‘see’ it as and seem to be unable to achieve by myself.  Check back often during this transformation.  Manifesting Goals will offer an Opt-In mailing list, a six page free basic ‘How-to EFT’ as a pdf, and a practice round for procrastination.

Soon, Manifesting Goals will offer classes on UstreamTV.  This is a very easy to use video plus text chat.  I’ll be on video and the participants will be in text chat.  I’m interviewing for moderators at this time.

The long awaited book, EFT for Writers, is in the final stages of editing.  Look for more information as the publication date gets closer.

Join me on FaceBook.  Manifesting Goals is listed under my name, C L Carver.

To Your Continued Success,

Cindy

Recently, he started using EFT sort of.  He forgot to tap.  He said it like a mantra or prayer.  The tapping was forgotten but the words were not and he used the words in a prayer form repeatedly.  Now… he’s found that we need to INVITE in to our space/US the Spirits of Love, Gratitude, Forgiveness, Prosperity and Freedom twice daily for quick change.  He’s been doing using this method since March or so with great benefits.

Even though, I don’t have the Spirit of _Love_, I choose to invite the Spirit of Love in and allow change.  I invite the Spirit of Love to live within me.  I forgive myself for not doing this sooner.  I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

If your choice is to use the tapping points:

KC - Even though, I don’t have the Spirit of _Love_, I choose to invite the Spirit of Love in and allow change.  I invite the Spirit of Love to live within me.  I forgive myself for not doing this sooner.  I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

EB – I invite the Spirit of _Love_ to live within me.

OE – I invite the Spirit of _Love_ to live within me.

UE - I invite the Spirit of _Love_ to live within me.

UN - I invite the Spirit of _Love_ to live within me.

Ch - I invite the Spirit of _Love_ to live within me.

CB - I invite the Spirit of _Love_ to live within me.

UA - I invite the Spirit of _Love_ to live within me.

Head - I invite the Spirit of _Love_ to live within me. Thank you for joining me.

Repeat for each Spirit or Energy that you call forth to live in your life and thank them daily for joining you.  After a month, give thanks twice daily.

To your Success in Sharing Love, Gratitude, Prosperity, Forgiveness and definitely Freedom,

Cindy

Remember it takes twenty-one days to build a habit. Once you build the habit, you’ll have the first layer of brush removed from the new trail you’ve blazed. You want to continue for another twenty-one days to make sure none of that old brush sneaks back onto the trail.

To Creating New Habits,

Cindy

Use EFT to remove the writings on your wall (the smart
mouth whispers you hear in your head), which continually
backbite you, as you do your best to move forward. EFT is
a wonderful thing. By concentrating on removing all broken
circuits, due to bad programming earlier in you life, you
can concentrate on rebuilding and building your self-esteem
from this moment forward.

Dr. Rachna Jain, a Baltimore psychologist and business
coach says, “Self-doubt is one of the main reasons business
owners don’t achieve the level of success they could”. As
writers, independent contractors, consultants, or parents,
how can we achieve the level of success we desire if we
allow self-doubt to creep into our lives?

Stop and recognize the incredible being you are. While the
place in life that you currently reside reflects who you
were yesterday, imagine the amazing place you will reside
tomorrow, due to the fact of your truly believable place of
wealth you are today. You may have bounced checks all over
creation, or behind on your bills, but look where you are
now in your thinking than you were two years ago? Isn’t it
amazing?

With the mindset of believing in yourself, the million
dollar threshold can be yours to cross. This setup
statement might be a bit beyond being able to be said out
loud for some of you, and that’s ok. Hum it instead.

Even though, I don’t believe in myself. I forgive myself.
I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

Some people have spectacular support systems and have been
built up most of their lives, while others can’t remember
anything nice being said to them while growing up. You
must remain your own best friend. Believe in yourself.
Give yourself pep talks daily. Use Patti LaBelle’s song, A
New Attitude or Queen’s song We are the Champions as your
theme song. Play them and say your affirmations out loud
while they play. Say your affirmations with lots of
emotion. Do this a couple times daily. You’re frequency
will begin to change and you’re mindset will shift. You
will be aware of it, and soon others will be too.

To Your Success,

Cindy

I notice when a company slacks off in advertising, the tracking on Alexa shows a down swing for the site. I don’t have an Alexa toolbar, I tried it once and it was very handy to see whose site is doing what as you visit them. Check this traffic monitor out. It’ll give you the inside skinny to how your site is doing and how it stacks up to it’s competitors.

Have fun checking out your favorite websites with this wonderful little graph. www.Alexa.com

P.S.  Look into www.quantcast.com It is similar to Alexa with more helpful features.  I use both when researching doing business with a website.

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To Your Success!

Cindy

Thought energy has a vibration frequency.  You have a vibration frequency.  For you to manifest what you desire, your frequency must equal or be greater than the thought frequency.  If your thoughts are not working on producing high vibrations, then you’ll never achieve the goals these thoughts desire.  Our thoughts are powerful!  They create real neurological channels in our brain.  The more we think one particular thought, the stronger that neurological channel, the stronger that thought.  Combine that with the emotional frequency it creates which produce an actual chemical to flow throughout our body changing its frequency.

Change your thinking and weaken the old neural network.  Strengthen your new neural network, visualize your end results often and produce all you deserve and that’s all you desire.  Tap your way into a positive lifestyle.

Happy Re-creation!!

Cindy